tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-63317748174905824712024-03-13T09:31:19.694-07:00Training Wheels for Early Childhood EducationTim Graves offers workshops, seminars, consultations for early childhood professionals, families, and others.Tim Graveshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16741352267268740594noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6331774817490582471.post-28031099611466617892012-02-25T11:26:00.001-08:002012-02-25T11:26:41.903-08:00Recipe: Ooblick<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Ingredients</span><div>
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">1 box of cornstarch</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Add water to the cornstarch until it is semi-firm. Sore covered in the refrigerator. As it becomes dry from storage or handling, add more water.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">This cleans up easily. If it gets on the floor or carpeting, wait for it to dry. Sweep or vacuum up. If it gets on clothing it comes out with water.</span></div>Tim Graveshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16741352267268740594noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6331774817490582471.post-59926700960247072642012-01-28T19:03:00.000-08:002012-01-28T19:05:52.525-08:00Activity: Roll the Times<span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span><br />
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<span style="color: #333333; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><b>Curriculum Areas: </b>Math (geometry), social studies</span><br />
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<span style="color: #333333; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><b>Activity:</b> Roll three or four sheets of newspaper into cylinders. Roll from the corner, tape in the center. Allow children to create structures with the cylinders and masking tape.. Depending upon the age of the children, they may or may not be able to roll their own cylinders. Adults may also want to be involved as the children first learn to use the materials. Again, this depends upon age and familiarity with open-ended materials.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #333333; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Legault, Suzanne. Constructive Play. Child and Family Canada. September 1996. April 24, 2000. <http://www.cfc-efc.ca/docs/00000080.htm></span></div>Tim Graveshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16741352267268740594noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6331774817490582471.post-76213534559718680562012-01-28T10:00:00.000-08:002012-01-28T10:00:00.216-08:00Count Dracula at the Day Care<br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><i>Emma walked into the room with a scowl. Her hair was disheveled, her face was contorted and her eyes still had the telltale signs of sleep in them. She looked fatigued and I was afraid. I recognized that look; that was the look of a toddler who would bite.</i></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">While biting especially among toddlers in group settings is age-appropriate, it remains a major frustration for educarers and parents of toddlers. Peruse the program of many early childhood conferences and you will find at least one workshop on the toddler behavior of biting. Why do toddlers bite and how can adults prevent it?</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><b>Why do toddlers bite?</b></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">It is useful to understand why toddlers bite before seeking to change the behavior. Unfortunately, since toddlers (approximately one to three year olds) have limited language and few of us can read minds, we can only make an educated guess as to why they bite. Some of the probable reasons that toddlers bite:</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><b>Teething.</b> Cutting teeth hurts. Chewing on something relieves the pain. Toddlers are egocentric and cannot yet put themselves in the place of others. They do not know they are hurting another. This may explain the look of disconnect, the lack of concern, that you sometimes see on a toddler’s face when their victim is screaming from the pain of being bitten. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><b>Sensory Exploration. </b> Anyone who has spent much time with babies and toddlers knows that they put everything in their mouths. This includes other children and adults. Biting is sometimes a way of learning about another child. This is more likely with babies but it is not unusual for toddlers.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><b>Cause and Effect.</b> After about 8-months-old, babies and toddlers begin to mentally play with the connection that their actions have on the world around them. "If I bite Andrew, I hear a high pitched scream and my special adults come running to my side. I wonder if it will happen again." seems to be in the mind of some biting toddlers. Toddlers are learning to have an impact on their world and biting definitely has an impact.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><b>Mimicry</b>. Biting is an extremely contagious behavior. Modeling or copying the actions of others is an important and powerful way for toddlers to learn. Unfortunately, sometimes the toddlers learn negative behaviors like biting through experiences with other toddlers. Any adult who has spent much time with a group of toddlers can testify to the fact that biting is more contagious than the common cold.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><b>Self-Assertion.</b> The accident report given the parent by an educarer at the end of the day reads, "Child was bitten during a struggle over a toy." Toddlers have very limited language skills. Consequently, biting is a way to register a complaint. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><b>Frustration, Fatigue, Stresses.</b> Some children bite when they are tired or hungry. Sometimes toddlers bite when they feel rushed or when Mom is out of town or when Dad worked late last night. Adults need to be aware of what is happening in the life of the biting child and take action to prevent other children from being physically hurt. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><b>What do I do when toddlers bite?</b></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">While it is crucial to accept the premise that biting is an age-appropriate behavior for toddlers, it is just as important to accept that biting is not an acceptable behavior. Adults must help toddlers control their urge to bite other children by responding quickly and firmly. While educarers and teachers cannot promise parents that their child will never be bitten again, they wish they could. There are, however, several actions they can take to lessen the likelihood of children being bitten.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">First, the biting child should be stopped and told, "STOP, Billy! You may not bite Joey. Biting hurts Joey." The adult's tone of voice must be firm but should not simply be louder than normal. The tone of voice should be unique to incidents of biting thus commanding attention from the children when it is used. Stop is a better word than no, because it is descriptive of an action and sometimes the toddler will stop—if only momentarily—until the adult reaches the toddlers involved.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">At the same time that the adult speaks, the adult should act. Ideally, one adult steps in to help the victim while another stops the biting child. Where this is not possible, the biting child should usually be dealt with first. This is because discipline for toddlers is most effective when it occurs immediately after the unacceptable action. The biting child should be removed from the situation. Depending upon the reason or reasons for the biting, the separation may be in the form of redirection, "time-out", or simply meeting the biter’s need. For example,</span><br />
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<li><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">If the biting occurred because of Self-Assertion, the biter needs assistance in learning appropriate ways to express him or herself. </span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">If the biting occurred as a form of Cause and Effect exploration, the biter needs multiple and numerous opportunities to affect her or his world.</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">If the biting is the result of Frustration, Fatigue, or Stress the educarers and parents need to work together at adjusting the context in which the toddler lives. If the classroom is too overstimulating, ways to lessen that stimulation need to be put in place. If the child is tired, ways to give the child more sleep need to be implemented.</span></li>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Adults never bite children because of the powerful influence of modeling on toddlers. Just as this contagious behavior can be learned from other toddlers, it can be learned from adults. While it is true that biting a toddler may stop the behavior in the short term, adults who bite toddlers send a clear message that biting is an acceptable behavior—as long as you are bigger and stronger.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Preventing biting before it happens is better than dealing with it after it occurs. Consequently, adults should carefully observe the moods and needs of toddlers. When a child is exhibiting low tolerance for frustration, or when a child has a history of biting, or when a child is teething, adults must pay especially close attention to the potential-biting child. When Emma in the example from above arrived in my classroom, I knew that she was likely to bite and I shadowed her closely. Because I knew that she was likely to bite in tight spaces, I temporarily removed the cardboard box the children played in as a way of eliminating a bite zone in my classroom.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">In shadowing the toddler who is likely to bite, the adult must be visually aware of where the child is and whom he or she is near at all times. The adult may need to stay physically close to the child. Additionally, biting can be discouraged through the encouragement of language. Words such as "mine" while tiresome to adults are very useful and important tools for toddlers. They allow the toddler to express wants without inflicting pain on peers.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><b>Specifically, what can I do?</b></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Remember that biting is normal no matter how repulsive it is to you as an adult. From the toddler's perspective, it can serve a similar purpose as an older child's shove or push.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><b>Make it clear to the child that biting is never acceptable</b>. Save a special tone of voice just for biting. By doing so, children are more likely to listen to your voice. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><b>Observe, observe, and observe what is happening in your classroom or home.</b> When is the child who has bitten before most likely to bite? Avoid tempting him or her to bite again. If the biting always occurs shortly before lunch, perhaps have the toddler help you with going to the kitchen to get lunch. As a director, I often helped the educarers by taking the stress biter out of the room during stressful times. This eliminated bite times and helped the potential biter to de-stress.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><b>Shadow severe, consistent "biters". </b> Assign one adult in the classroom to be with two feet of the historical biter at all times until biting has ceased. This may take several days but the results will be well worth the effort if you get a biting epidemic under control. Financially, directors who see the big picture and the likelihood of losing families due to a biting epidemic, actually save money by temporarily providing toddler classrooms with extra adults during outbreaks of biting.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><b>Model for toddlers the behavior you expect. </b>Never ever, bite a child so that "they will know how it feels." Toddlers who are bitten by adults learn that biting is acceptable if you are big enough and if no one is present to punish you.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><b>If you are an educarer, talk to parents about what is happening.</b> Parents deserve to know that your classroom is having a biting problem. They will want to know what steps you are taking to solve the problem. Remember, however, that it is the educarer’s job to deal with the biting problem. Parents cannot fix a problem that occurs when they are at work.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><b>If you are a parent, talk to educarers about what is happening.</b> Educarers need to know what is happening with your child so that they can deal with problems. If your child is biting at home, letting educarers know will help to prevent biting at school. If your toddler is dealing with stressors that may affect his or her behavior, this information is also helpful to the educarer.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><b>If you are an educarer or program staff member, keep the name or names of biting children to yourself.</b> Parents are emotionally involved with their own children. Some parents have been known to denigrate the biting child if they know who it is. Sometimes this parental reaction is intentional but more often it is unintentional. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><b>Provide activities or equipment that responds to the reason biting is occurring</b>. If Suzy is biting because she is teething, provide her with appealing teething rings. If Suzy is biting because her mother is out-of-town, provide her with extra nurturing and watch for potential problems. If Suzy is biting as a way of exerting herself, teach her words she can use instead.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><i>I planned to have my son photographed on Saturday morning. As I walked down the hall to pick up my son at the end of my day on Wednesday, I saw Janelle, his educarer. She had that look on her face. It was not a good look; I was afraid. Janelle said, “I was just coming to see you. Celia gave Isaac another hug and kiss today.” I knew what that meant, Celia and Isaac were great friends but her hugs and kisses always seemed to include teeth. Janelle and I discussed the actions she was taking in her room to prevent the biting but Celia was just a little too quick for her this time. We went ahead and had that photograph taken. Isaac was adorable with a huge grin on his face and with a kiss in the middle of his right cheek.</i></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">©Copyright, 1993, 2004 Timothy R. Graves. All Rights Reserved. Permission to reproduce for use with parents and families of young children is granted provided no financial gain is involved and this copyright notice is included. </span><br />Tim Graveshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16741352267268740594noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6331774817490582471.post-36147327890965868902012-01-27T19:19:00.001-08:002012-01-27T22:17:17.706-08:00Cooking with Toddlers & Twos<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The cold winter months are a wonderful time to begin cooking with your toddler and two-year old (or older) child. Cooking helps teach and reinforce many science, literacy, and math concepts and can reinforce good nutrition if you select appropriate recipes.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Sometimes adults react to the suggestion that they should cook with children by talking about the danger of access to hot stoves and ovens. These adults are absolutely correct to be concerned about safety but with a few simple rules and preparation cooking can be a safe, learning activity for young children.</span><br />
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<li><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Count the number of ingredients. “Billy, put three strawberries in our bowl…one, two, three…”</span></li>
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<li><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Measure the amount of lemon juice or water for the lemonade recipe.</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Talk or hear the adult talk about big and little.</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Talk or hear the adult classify ingredients by color and other characteristics.</span></li>
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<li><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Use their five senses to gather information about the ingredients and the completed dish.</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Predict what will happen as they put the ingredients together and see the results of those actions. It is truly new to toddlers to see the bread dough start off as a small sticky, mass at the bottom of the pan and come out of the oven firm and sticking out above the bread pan.</span></li>
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<li><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Watch adults use a visual aid with drawings or photos of each step in the recipe. (Adults can create these in advance.)</span></li>
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<span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Know your child and prepare your child in advance about what is going to happen. If your child tends to lunge into new materials and ask questions later, make sure that any of the unsafe materials are out of reach. Tell your child before bringing a dangerous object (for example, a knife) out what is going to happen. For example, “Mommy is going to use a knife now. I need you to put your hands behind your back while I make a cut in this carrot.”</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><b>Start simple. </b>The first cooking experiences that you plan for your child should be simple and extremely safe ones. It is often a good idea to start with non-cook recipes until your child is accustomed to following your simple rules. A simple fruit salad in which your child dumps precut fruit out of smaller containers into a large bowl and then stirs is an example of a simple, easy place to start with cooking experiences.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><b>Pick a good time.</b> You want to pick a time of day when your child is most likely to follow instructions. You also want to pick a time of day when your patience is at a maximum. The end of your workday when you’re tired and your child is bouncing off the walls is rarely a good time to cook.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><b>Prepare materials in advance. </b>Have all of your materials readily available before your child joins you. Remember, if your child is required to wait for you to gather materials, s/he at best will be squirming and at worst will begin getting into materials that are unsafe. Pulling the flour, shortening, and other ingredients out of the cupboard before starting that bread recipe will make the experience smoother for you and your child.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><b>Model appropriate cooking techniques.</b> Demonstrate how to tear lettuce. Demonstrate how to handle a knife with respect so that later when your child is old enough to use it s/he has seen you using caution. If you’re using heat, don’t cut corners with potholders and other safety techniques in front of your child. Go overboard with your own safety precautions and talk about what you’re doing and why. “Daddy is using a potholder because the cookie sheet is hot from being in the oven.”</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><b>Wash your hands.</b> Wash your hands and your child’s hands before starting the project and throughout the process as appropriate. Hand washing is the single most effective technique for stopping the spread of disease.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><b>Be prepared to cancel the project.</b> If things are not going well, stop. If your child is not enjoying the experience, if you’re bickering or if your child continuously reaches for the knife or the hot pot after being cautioned, put everything away.</span><br />
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